I like to do things by myself.... like travelling, sewing and running. You know, an independent sort of person. I did not reveal myself as a passionate left-handed sewist or keen-but-sloppy gardener much before the blog, so I have been slow to make like-minded friends. This is OK. Except...
Little by little, I am learning the importance of having like-minded folk to share interests, challenges and successes with. I just spent the evening roasting marshmallows around a fire - with my kids and extended family (an assortment of aunts, uncles, cousins, cousin-in-laws, and multiple offspring). We spend a lot of time together in the summer. I have been having a blast this year, with my kids being hardy and happy and fully-immersed into this community of rowdy relatives - relatives with a shared history of summer adventures. I have recognized that this is what I have been seeking with the blog - a community. In this case, a community with shared interests (sewing, crafting, childrearing, gardening).
Thanks to the blog (I am serious), craft-oriented relationships have been developing in non-blog life. I am joining a knitting group. I have sewing friends. I am talking about gardening with other real-life gardeners. My own sisters bring me their baking and needlepoint stories more often. Weird.
Speaking of the importance of shared lives and community:
My sister brought home this book the other day entitled Can Any Mother Help Me? by Jenna Bailey. It is about a group of mothers in the 1930's who wrote and distributed a private magazine. The magazine started in response to a letter written to a British magazine by a lonely and frustrated mother - a mother in need of friendship and community! Was this the blogging of the 1930's?
I have not read it yet. I am next in line. Sounds cool, though.